50 Questions to Keep Your Conversations Going.

If you’re an introvert like me you might find it difficult to come up with what to say to keep a conversation going. My grandma always says certain people have the gift to gab. This is not an ability I possess. I always fall back on a few questions, ask them sincerely, and listen intently. We all want to make people feel good and one way to do this is to ask them questions.

Be Likeable. Ask Questions.

Plus it makes you more likeable and likeable people go much farther in life.  Here’s 50 to get you started.

Save this on your phone and refer back to it before you enter a social setting. It will ease your anxiety and keep conversations going, I promise. Get the PDF: Questions to ask others.

  1. What do you do?
  2. Where do you work?
  3. Do you like working there?
  4. What’s your next career goal?
  5. What made you want to be a ________?
  6. Where did you go to college?
  7. What was your major?
  8. Do you want to go back to school? For what?
  9. Where are you from?
  10. Do you like living here?
  11. What’s your favorite restaurant?
  12. What’s your favorite type of food?
  13. Do you like to cook? Grill?
  14. Do you have any hobbies? What are they?
  15. Do you have kids? How many? Names?
  16. What are your kids like?
  17. Do you have any pictures of your kids?
  18. Do your kids play sports, involved in theatre, sing, etc…?
  19. What’s your favorite movie?
  20. Have you seen any good movies lately?
  21. Do you have any pets? How many? What kind are they?
  22. What do you do in your free time?
  23. Do you have any upcoming vacations?
  24. Have you been on vacation recently?
  25. Where would you like to go on vacation?
  26. Do you drive or fly when vacationing?
  27. Are you married? How many years?
  28. What do you love the most about your spouse?
  29. How did you meet your spouse?
  30. What was your first date with your spouse?
  31. Do you think you’re more the same or more opposite of your spouse?
  32. Where do you like go for date nights?
  33. How was your weekend? What did you do?
  34. If you could go anywhere right now without thinking about expenses, where would it be?
  35. How are you doing?
  36. What is your dream job?
  37. Do you read any blogs? Which ones?
  38. What TV series are you watching?
  39. Do you like to go _____________ (snowboarding, skiing, hiking, mountain biking, running, exercise classes, dancing, and breweries?
  40. What’s your favorite beer/wine?
  41. Where do you like to go hiking/biking/running, etc…?
  42. Where do you like to shop?
  43. What’s your favorite season? Why?
  44. Do you have any brothers or sisters? Are you close to them? Do they live close by?
  45. Do you volunteer anywhere? Where?
  46. Do you like to be outdoors?
  47. What do you find relaxing?
  48. How do you organize your day?
  49. What’s your favorite book?
  50. What’s your favorite brewery?

What are your go to questions? Comment below.

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